1. Not sleeping for 2 years
It could be longer. I don’t even know yet. I wouldn’t be that surprised if it’s never again to be honest. I mean at first it’s okay. For like 2 weeks your all like, “OMG why is everyone talking about being tired? I’m TOTES fine! Cuz I’m a badass who doesn’t need sleep,” Little did you know, 5 weeks from that moment, when you still haven’t slept for more than two consecutive hours.. you would be crying, yelling at your husband that he is the devil. Or that you would be “going to the bathroom” to catch a little shut eye on the toilet. Which is awesome because usually your quick naps happen unintentionally and while your standing up.
2. They need to eat. Every. Day.
It’s like, every morning you have to think of something for them to eat, AND it’s supposed to be HEALTHY (yeah right). To begin with you’re all gung-ho nutrition freak.. Until your kids get their grubby little fingers on cookies (thanks Nana). Then good luck getting that cute little nightmare to eat their veggies. And this struggle happens every day. MORE THAN ONCE.
3. Saggy boobs
You think you’re going to be okay. You think you’ll get away scott free. Well guess what? You wont. Don’t let anyone tell you differently. Mine used to be the epitome of perky. Bra? Who needs those?? Oh wait. Me. I need them. Because my kids are boob-perk stealing little shits.
4. Not showering alone
The first few times its really cute (awww she want to shower like Mommy!) No. No she doesn’t. She wants to hold her little bathtub toy bucket against your leg to try and drink dirty-mommy water. She wants to crawl between your legs, REPEATEDLY, the entire time. She wants your shampoo bubbles. To eat them. Damn kid wont eat her f*ing strawberries but she’ll eat soap. Awesome.
5. They scream
Not in the beginning. But soon enough they will hit ear piercing levels you didn’t even know existed. And you rock, you sing, you snuggle, you feed, change, Tylenol, and cry back.. But they Just. Wont. Stop. You just need to put baby in his crib.. and go outside for some fresh air and a couple shots of whiskey. No I’m just kidding. You’ll need more than just a couple shots. Ha. Kidding again. Eventually you will learn what makes them stop. Tearing apart diaper bags. Dunking toilet paper rolls into the bathtub. Washing their hair in the toilet. Whatever. As long as their quiet. No, but not the toilet. That’s just gross.
Those of you non-parents.. enjoy this NOT happening to you. Shit f*ing sucks. But you get used to it, and learn to love it. Okay. Parts of it.